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Former ‘Bully’ Bosses: Do I mention them during an interview?
You’ve had a great track record with your employer, however due to the incessant actions of a bully boss (who relentlessly picks on a minority group in the workforce) you take a stand and make a formal complaint to senior management, and now, unfortunately find yourself out of a job, as does the boss. How do you handle this situation in an interview? Do you disclose that the reason you lost your job was due to a bullying boss and the company making a decision that it was best that you both part ways?
Telling the interviewer about a previous tyrant of a boss (or colleague) even when completely justified is not a good idea for a number of reasons:
1. Focuses on the negative and could dampen the entire interview
Bringing up this information has the interviewer concentrating on the ‘negative’ and during your conversations you want to make sure that the topic of conversation remains positive. Any negative tone can put a dampener on the entire interview, and is the last thing you want the interviewer to remember you for.
2. Interviewer may perceive you to be difficult to manage
Could raise doubts in the interviewer’s mind about hiring you and it could give the impression that you are a difficult person with whom to work. The interviewer has not had the misfortune of being managed by this tyrant boss, so cannot appreciate what you and the other staff have had to deal with, and you certainly don’t want to have to begin disclosing any of these details. To avoid opening up a hornet’s nest, you may want to leave well enough alone and not mention anything
3. Cause the interviewer to imagine you speaking negatively about him/her
Hearing you speak negatively about your previous boss’ wrongdoings could cause the interviewer to think that you may speak negatively about him/her in the future should you be offered the role and the relationship hit rocky ground and you decide to leave. No-one likes the thought of being spoken about negatively, particularly a potential boss looking to hire you.
Your best approach
Your overall objective in an interview is to demonstrate your strengths, experience and value you offer the company and why they should hire you. Avoid raising doubts in the interviewer’s mind (and casting a shadow over your candidacy) by concentrating on your successful track record.
With regards to references and referees’ contact details, you probably don’t want to provide the bully boss’ details. Rather consider whether another supervisor or colleague would be able to speak about your previous experience and professionalism within the workplace.
If you have had a specific issue with a previous boss and are uncertain how to address this in an interview and believe some coaching around this situation to identify some strategic responses would be beneficial to you, you may want to consider our Interviewing Success Program. Each situation has its own unique circumstances and probably warrants a different approach, however what is common and important in all situations is not to speak negatively about your former boss (or colleagues) even if what you are saying is entirely warranted.
Want to learn more about our Interview coaching programs? Contact me at: annemarie@annemariecross.com.
To your success!
Annemarie
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